At first I felt unsafe and cold in Cape Town. Walking around this colonial and very modern city... if you have never been surrounded at a crosswalk by a bunch of very black people speaking a foreign language... that can be interesting.
After making friends with a few locals I have seen a deeper side of Cape
Town, and I really like it here.
My new buddies have names like Skylar, Wilding,
Molote, and Sarika. They have taken me to brais (backyard BBQs), briefed me on the ANC (Nelson Mandela's political party), toured a beautiful beach, and taught me some slang.
Slang... ambiguous use of the word "now." South Africans
will say "I'll see you now" or "I am doing it now," and
now can mean 5 to 10 to 45 minutes.
Slang... To express urgency, you can say "now now."
Example, "I am outside your door - OK I will see you now now."
Slang... Another cool phrase is “It’s not a train smash” which means like “It’s no big deal.”
example…. Hey I am running late -- OK, it’s not a train smash.
Slang... Instead of "bro," for Brother people say it like the word
"brew."
The BBQ (brai) is a serious part of the South African food and social
culture.
South Africans are the best grill masters that I have ever met. I have been to a few BBQs now at people’s houses and they are all AMAZING. Choice
meat and great seasoning.
The Zulu language is interesting. They have these three types of clicks and tongue-pops that are just so amazing to hear in conversation. Learning about dental, palatal, and lateral tongue clicking was one of those very special travel experiences where I realized how little I know about the world. These kinds of things really make me excited to travel again.